Assault of the Paramours: Reversionism: Stage 3: Operation Boomerang; 4: Emotional Revolt of the Soul; 5: Locked-in Negative Volition

				Operation Boomerang:
(19)	Happiness from externals is an elusive dream so the frantic search for it causes stress in the soul: frustration, depression, guilt, anger, jealousy, envy, bitterness, and delusion.
(20)	When it is realized that efforts to secure happiness have failed then the reactor factors increase and the frantic search moves to other means of finding it.
(21)	In order to justify her poor decisions, the young woman becomes evasive with others, secretive, self-righteous, or practices duplicity.
(22)	Her disposition moves from discouragement to depression.  Failure to rebound and resume consistent Bible study results in the decline into stage four:
				Emotional Revolt of the Soul:
(23)	Emotion now runs the soul from the inside and her boyfriend runs her life from the outside.  She has lost control of her soul to her emotions and to others.
(24)	Doctrinal recall is ignored or rejected.  Grace orientation is forgotten as she conjures the myth that this is her right man.
(25)	However, the plan of God guarantees her a right man of His own choosing, but the emotional damsel has decided an unbeliever or a reversionistic believer is the one and contends, “God will make it work.”
(26)	But the way God makes things work is by means of His Word functioning in the souls of positive believers who choose to apply biblical standards in their decision-making and problem-solving.
(27)	The attitude “I want what I want and I want it now” ignores the perfect timing of God.  He knows what is best for us and therefore we are to patiently submit to His schedule, not ours.
(28)	If the young woman jumps the gun motivated by impatience, libido, or delusion, then she compounds a situation that may well find her married to someone that would be inappropriate for a positive believer.
(29)	She of course does not realize this because she is out of fellowship.  She concludes the man she has picked is right for her.  Once married she must make the best of it, but she will never know the true happiness that waiting on God’s perfect timing would have provided.
(30)	Instead she becomes a case study of how emotionalism can cause a doctrinal damsel to lose touch with her personal destiny.  Why choose to spend a brief few years in this life with a person that God didn’t select? This is illogical.  Unchecked, such emotionalism leads to stage five of her reversionistic spiral through the Dark Side:
				Locked-in Negative Volition:
(31)	There are several categories of negative volition to the Word of God.  Many are attracted to the academics of doctrinal churches.  Learning biblical principles for the purpose of criticizing, manipulating, or controlling others is wrong application.
(32)	Some don’t like certain subjects and tune out until “their favorite doctrine” is taught.  During this period they are negative to what is taught and therefore negative at application.
(33)	Doctrinal damsels gone awry do not want to hear principles such as “you must become the right person before you will be allowed to meet your right person.”
(34)	Negative volition has canceled this woman’s effectiveness in the Angelic Conflict.  She is not prepared to capitalize on the true happiness doctrine would have provided with a man of integrity and honor.
(35)	Knowing this in eternity past, God has indeed prepared for her a substitute.  Having ignored the brightest and the best, the kind of man doctrinal advance could have provided, means she must settle for someone way down the list of eligibles.